The most awkward part of small talk can be the breakaway – and, for many, it’s the very reason they shy away from engaging others to begin with. How can you gracefully disengage yourself from a casual interaction? Make sure your final comments have a positive spin and incorporate any “next steps” that were discussed during your conversation. Here are some ideas for exiting gracefully:
“I’ve really enjoyed talking with you, but I don’t want to monopolize you. Can we talk next week by phone?”
“I’m sure there are others here you’d like to meet. I hope you enjoy the party.”
“I’m going to circulate and say hello to some of the other people here tonight. I loved hearing about your trip to Italy. May I contact you next week to get the name of your travel agent?”
“I see someone I must speak with before I leave tonight. I hope you have a good time this evening. When I see Mr. Blair, I’ll be sure to introduce you to him.”